Here’s the matchsticks to reignite the love
February is a month of love, where we celebrate, cherish, and appreciate our loved ones by expressing our love through gifts, flowers, chocolates, and romantic gestures, especially on Valentine’s day. But, is it going to be just another day for you?
Nowadays people are so caught up with their career and other stuff that they forget to give importance to their partner. Some just get gifts, or go for dinner and continue to be on their phone, but neglect the significance of quality time together.
If this sounds like your Valentine’s all this while, then you should really think about it again because bringing back the spark is what you need this time.
The spark, or the initial excitement and passion in a relationship, can fade over time due to the daily routines and responsibilities of life. Reviving that spark can help reignite feelings of love, excitement and connection between partners.
It can also help to strengthen the bond between partners and rekindle the romantic feelings that may have become dormant. Additionally, making an effort to bring back the spark can show your partner that you care about the relationship and are willing to put in the work to keep it strong. It can also be a way to break out of the routine and inject some fun and excitement into the relationship.
Here are some tips on how to do it:
RECREATE THE FIRST DATE
The girl who was laughing at the lame jokes he told, and the sneaky glances he was caught casting… Oh, and that strange-food restaurant with the dim lighting that nevertheless managed to become a cherished spot in your memory. Wouldn’t it be awesome for you both to go back to that evening?
One of the most popular services at spas all around the world is a couples massage. What could be more romantic than lying side-by-side with your significant other in the most tranquil setting? If a full-body massage isn’t your cup of tea,you can surely consider a relaxing foot massage together then.
WATCH MOVIE TOGETHER
There must be some or that one romantic movie that you’ve put on hold to watch together but never got the time or opportunity to do so. Just watch it. It may not be in the theatre, it could be in the comfort of your home, under the blanket, watching the movie together. Don’t forget to laugh out loud at jokes, cuddle, and have some popcorn and drinks.
Have you written a love letter for your spouse? If yes, how long ago was it? If no, why not bring it back to old school; the days where letters were handwritten and sealed with a kiss. Love letters are a physical memory that will last a lifetime. A love letter is definitely a way to express feelings that may have become taken for granted over time and to rekindle the romance in your relationship and make your partner feel special and loved.
However, bringing back the spark on Valentine’s Day as parents can be a bit more challenging as you have to balance taking care of your children with taking care of your relationship.
It’s important to remember that being a parent does not mean the end of romance, it just means finding new ways to show love and make time for each other. With a little creativity and effort, you can bring back the spark and strengthen your relationship even with the added responsibilities of parenting.
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